Whether you have inherited your wealth or have built it yourself, you likely want to share this wealth with the next generation and beyond. The quotation “shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves in three generations” has often been attributed to Andrew Carnegie. The same concept...
Estate Planning
Fears When Talking about Money
Studies[1] have shown that the largest contributing factors to generational loss of wealth are a lack of communication and trust among family members and the failure to prepare heirs.[2] Often, fear is what underlies the lack of communication and trust that inevitably...
The Harmonious Family that Won’t Fight? The Outcome May Surprise You
Most families are happy families. They get together for the holidays, share laughs, and tell stories. Everyone gets along and enjoys each other’s company. Then, the matriarch or patriarch dies. Suddenly, years of pent-up resentment and hurt feelings bubble to the...
Informing Your Heirs about your Estate Plan
Many of my clients have told me that they do not wish to tell their children or other loved ones ANYTHING about their estate plan. This is because they believe that their heirs will begin to “count” their money before they have died; or at least count on receiving...
Pooled Trust Update:
Last March 2023 we described the efforts of Senator Jehlen and Representative Hogan (H1274/5773) to sponsor a bill in the Commonwealth legislature that would enable seniors to use special needs pooled trusts without penalty to pay for important services and care not...
Do You Update Your Estate Plan as Often as Your Resume?
A resume is a snapshot of your experience, skill set, and education that provides prospective employers insight into who you are and how you will perform. Imagine not updating your resume for five, ten, or even fifteen years. Would it accurately reflect your...
An Estate Plan Should Not Be a Set-It-and-Forget-It Endeavor
As we all know, life happens. There is really nothing we can do about it. However, some of the most common life events can have a dramatic effect on your estate plan. If you think your estate plan is like a slow cooker and you can set it and forget it, you and your...
Treating Children Fairly Does Not Necessarily Mean Equally
Most parents want to treat their children fairly in their estate planning and many assume that means having their children inherit equally. But fair does not necessarily mean equal. There may be special circumstances to consider. For example: Parents may want to...
Don’t Do It: Giving Your Assets to Your Children Now Can Cause Serious Problems
Sometimes people will transfer title of their assets to their adult children while they are living, thinking it will make things easier for their children when something happens to them or to avoid taxes. Making the transfers will prevent the court from controlling...
IRAs, Annuities and Guardianship: Providing for Your Minor Children after You Die
Deciding on a guardian for your minor children may very well be the most vexing decision you’ll make regarding your estate planning. Not only must you trust the appointed guardian to raise your children as you’d want them raised, but you also need that person to be...